အေရာင္အဆင္းမဲ့ ပုံသ႑ာန္ကင္းတဲ့ ေမတၱာတရားကုိ ေမတၱာတရားရွိသူတုိ.သာ ပုံေဖၚနဳိင္စြမ္းရွိပါတယ္။ ေမတၱာပုံရိပ္ကုိလည္း ေမတၱာမ်က္၀န္းရွိသူတုိ႔သာ နားလည္ခံစားနဳိင္ပါတယ္။ ေလာကႀကီး သာယာ၀ေျပာဖုိ႔ ကုိယ္က်င့္တရားကုိ ျမတ္ႏုိးပါ။ ေလာကႀကီး သာယာလွပဖုိ႔ သဘာ၀တရားကုိ ျမတ္ႏုိးပါ။ အမုန္းတရားကုိ တားဆီးဖုိ႔ ခ်စ္ခင္မႈကုိ ျမတ္ႏုိးပါ။ ဘက္လုိက္မႈကုိ တာဆီးဖုိ႔ တရားမွ်တမႈကုိ ျမတ္ႏုိးပါ။

Friday, January 14, 2011

Seven qualities of a good friend

In the daily life, we have to deal with the four aspects such as economic, political, educational and social affairs. Here I wish to say about social affair out of these four aspects. In the world, there are different various types of people and also their mind. Everywhere, it is so easy to make a friend with one another but not easy to know an individual mind, to understand. Therefore, it is necessary for all of us to have ethical moralities with each other and to observe one’s dignity on friend to friend. In the Anguttara Nikaya also, Our Lord Buddha disclosed about moralities of a good friend. There are seven qualities of a good friend as follow.


1. He gives what is hard to give

2. He does what is hard to do

3. He endures what is hard to endure

4. He reveals his secrets to you

5. He keeps your secrets

6. When misfortunes strike, he doesn't abandon you

7. When you're down and out, he doesn't look down on you

(From Anguttara Nikaya of the Lord Buddha 7.35)‌

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